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		<title>By: Godless Heathen</title>
		<link>http://roundshape.wordpress.com/2009/05/13/ahhh-too-many-stairs/#comment-4873</link>
		<dc:creator>Godless Heathen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Jun 2009 17:06:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Stairs wipe me the hell out.  I can&#039;t bend my right knee, so I have to climb each riser by stepping up with my left leg then dragging my right one up behind me.  I live on the third floor of my building, the stairs aren&#039;t very wide, and I&#039;ve had to stop on landings to let people go up in front of me because it takes so damn long.  Screw stairs.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Stairs wipe me the hell out.  I can&#8217;t bend my right knee, so I have to climb each riser by stepping up with my left leg then dragging my right one up behind me.  I live on the third floor of my building, the stairs aren&#8217;t very wide, and I&#8217;ve had to stop on landings to let people go up in front of me because it takes so damn long.  Screw stairs.</p>
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		<title>By: Earning the right to live &#171; I AM in shape. ROUND is a shape.</title>
		<link>http://roundshape.wordpress.com/2009/05/13/ahhh-too-many-stairs/#comment-4865</link>
		<dc:creator>Earning the right to live &#171; I AM in shape. ROUND is a shape.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Jun 2009 12:59:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] quote, in a comment for this post by commenter Patsy Nevins, has really struck a chord with me and been jingling around in my mind [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] quote, in a comment for this post by commenter Patsy Nevins, has really struck a chord with me and been jingling around in my mind [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Eric Richardville</title>
		<link>http://roundshape.wordpress.com/2009/05/13/ahhh-too-many-stairs/#comment-4848</link>
		<dc:creator>Eric Richardville</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Jun 2009 02:37:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I get tired walking up stairs for sure but I notice that I had a problem when I found myself gasping for air after putting on my shoes.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I get tired walking up stairs for sure but I notice that I had a problem when I found myself gasping for air after putting on my shoes.</p>
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		<title>By: Patsy Nevins</title>
		<link>http://roundshape.wordpress.com/2009/05/13/ahhh-too-many-stairs/#comment-4667</link>
		<dc:creator>Patsy Nevins</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 May 2009 21:00:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sounds like a great idea for a post, April.  Part of mine is the  lifelong struggle to prove that I was TOO a &#039;normal&#039; woman even if I did have a disability, which also goes along with the thing most of us who are fat have about proving that we are as good as thin people, etc.  Most of us seem to believe that we have to EARN the right to live.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sounds like a great idea for a post, April.  Part of mine is the  lifelong struggle to prove that I was TOO a &#8216;normal&#8217; woman even if I did have a disability, which also goes along with the thing most of us who are fat have about proving that we are as good as thin people, etc.  Most of us seem to believe that we have to EARN the right to live.</p>
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		<title>By: April D</title>
		<link>http://roundshape.wordpress.com/2009/05/13/ahhh-too-many-stairs/#comment-4666</link>
		<dc:creator>April D</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 May 2009 19:03:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>((Patsy))  I love your last thought especially; about trying to &quot;prove&quot; something.  Perhaps this sort of physical martyrdom mentality we all seem to internalize is a throwback to puritanism (you don&#039;t complain, God gave you these trials for a reason; you must endure without complaint and try to do MORE) that is really damaging to a lot of minds and therefore bodies as we each try to push to do things we really shouldn&#039;t/can&#039;t without causing ourselves harm; just to prove that we are invulnerable; not mortal.  Hmmm perhaps a topic for a future post even...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>((Patsy))  I love your last thought especially; about trying to &#8220;prove&#8221; something.  Perhaps this sort of physical martyrdom mentality we all seem to internalize is a throwback to puritanism (you don&#8217;t complain, God gave you these trials for a reason; you must endure without complaint and try to do MORE) that is really damaging to a lot of minds and therefore bodies as we each try to push to do things we really shouldn&#8217;t/can&#8217;t without causing ourselves harm; just to prove that we are invulnerable; not mortal.  Hmmm perhaps a topic for a future post even&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Patsy Nevins</title>
		<link>http://roundshape.wordpress.com/2009/05/13/ahhh-too-many-stairs/#comment-4665</link>
		<dc:creator>Patsy Nevins</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 May 2009 16:47:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks, April, for understanding what I was trying to say.  I also do realize that I am often over-sensitive &amp; feel, because I HAVE been abused &amp; criticized &amp; &quot;othered&quot; a lot in my life, as if someone is treating me as if I am an inferior person &amp; as if my concerns &amp; limitations or the limitations of others who are much MORE limited than I are not real, valid, or worth consideration.  I have a problem at times with &#039;projecting&#039; &amp; reading more than is meant into what someone says or writes, &amp; I get touchy when it seems as if someone is suggesting that, if we say stairs are difficult for us (&amp; for me, it is mostly the pain in legs &amp; knees, the wobbly balance, risk of tripping &amp; falling, &amp; the breathing is not a serious issue), we are being lazy &amp;/or making excuses for not wanting to take advantage of an easy way to add more &#039;fitness&#039; to our lives.  I have in the past ten years or so had increasingly more moments when my ankles or knees start to wobble &amp; threaten to collapse under me while I am out walking, with no advance notice.  It is scary enough on level ground.  When it happens on stairs (&amp; it has more than a few times, as I just moved out of a second-floor unit 6 months ago), it is downright terrifying.  I still take some stairs &amp; will likely do so as long as I can manage them at all, but if I do not, it is not laziness or because I am a self-indulgent fat slob, but because I am trying to minimize considerable pain &amp;/or avoid serious injury or even sudden death.

And, just for the record, I think that running &amp; using a stairmaster are exercise forms that MUST have been thought up by orthopedic surgeons, because they are so damaging to the body &amp; those who do these things often find themselves under the knife of the orthopedists.  Many people greatly exaggerate the health benefits of exercise, but such benefits as there are can be found in 30 minutes of moderate walking or swimming some laps, with a lot less stress &amp; joint damage.  I think I have finally outgrown the need to see how long &amp; hard I can exercise just so that I can &#039;prove&#039; something or make an impression on someone else.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks, April, for understanding what I was trying to say.  I also do realize that I am often over-sensitive &amp; feel, because I HAVE been abused &amp; criticized &amp; &#8220;othered&#8221; a lot in my life, as if someone is treating me as if I am an inferior person &amp; as if my concerns &amp; limitations or the limitations of others who are much MORE limited than I are not real, valid, or worth consideration.  I have a problem at times with &#8216;projecting&#8217; &amp; reading more than is meant into what someone says or writes, &amp; I get touchy when it seems as if someone is suggesting that, if we say stairs are difficult for us (&amp; for me, it is mostly the pain in legs &amp; knees, the wobbly balance, risk of tripping &amp; falling, &amp; the breathing is not a serious issue), we are being lazy &amp;/or making excuses for not wanting to take advantage of an easy way to add more &#8216;fitness&#8217; to our lives.  I have in the past ten years or so had increasingly more moments when my ankles or knees start to wobble &amp; threaten to collapse under me while I am out walking, with no advance notice.  It is scary enough on level ground.  When it happens on stairs (&amp; it has more than a few times, as I just moved out of a second-floor unit 6 months ago), it is downright terrifying.  I still take some stairs &amp; will likely do so as long as I can manage them at all, but if I do not, it is not laziness or because I am a self-indulgent fat slob, but because I am trying to minimize considerable pain &amp;/or avoid serious injury or even sudden death.</p>
<p>And, just for the record, I think that running &amp; using a stairmaster are exercise forms that MUST have been thought up by orthopedic surgeons, because they are so damaging to the body &amp; those who do these things often find themselves under the knife of the orthopedists.  Many people greatly exaggerate the health benefits of exercise, but such benefits as there are can be found in 30 minutes of moderate walking or swimming some laps, with a lot less stress &amp; joint damage.  I think I have finally outgrown the need to see how long &amp; hard I can exercise just so that I can &#8216;prove&#8217; something or make an impression on someone else.</p>
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		<title>By: April D</title>
		<link>http://roundshape.wordpress.com/2009/05/13/ahhh-too-many-stairs/#comment-4664</link>
		<dc:creator>April D</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 May 2009 15:29:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well put Patsy.  I feel that the comments I&#039;ve been getting very clearly show how vast the capabilities and enjoyment (for stairs) can range.  Some people hate stairs. Others LOVE to run up them.  And some of us don&#039;t realize how either of those two extremes completely ignore those people who CAN&#039;T feel either way because they are unable to climb stairs the same way or at all.  While my original post was going to address how easy it is for people to condemn a fat person for declaring she hates stairs (which is evidenced by comments I&#039;ve been getting) I really find that folks are resistant to trying to adjust the world in a way that would make it more accessible.  As if accessibility is some sort of privilege to be held only by those fatties willing to beat themselves up enough and &quot;Use those Stairs&quot; and people not completely unable to USE said stairs (whether they are fat or not).

@beta - First, I am all for using personal energies to avoid using up the resources on our earth.  However, fossil fuels don&#039;t really power escalators since they run on &lt;a href=&quot;http://science.howstuffworks.com/escalator.htm&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;electric motors&lt;/a&gt; (unless electricity is a fossil fuel and I somehow missed that?).  Second, simply &quot;Choosing&quot; not to WANT to expend energy and wishing that the world would catch up to the current century to accommodate all levels of ability in accessing said world is not merely my means of saying &quot;I&#039;m LAZY!  I don&#039;t want to EXERCISE my LEGS!&quot; (See part about wanting to use energy for OTHER activities) like some spoiled and privileged little fat girl.  When this world does not accommodate the people in it then hells yes I think it should be re-engineered.  Claiming that the world of stairs as we know it is not denying vast numbers of people access and instead arguing that I &quot;just don&#039;t want to be short of breathe&quot; is ignoring that while I might simply not LIKE going up or down a set of knee harming stairs; there are plenty of other people who don&#039;t have that option.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well put Patsy.  I feel that the comments I&#8217;ve been getting very clearly show how vast the capabilities and enjoyment (for stairs) can range.  Some people hate stairs. Others LOVE to run up them.  And some of us don&#8217;t realize how either of those two extremes completely ignore those people who CAN&#8217;T feel either way because they are unable to climb stairs the same way or at all.  While my original post was going to address how easy it is for people to condemn a fat person for declaring she hates stairs (which is evidenced by comments I&#8217;ve been getting) I really find that folks are resistant to trying to adjust the world in a way that would make it more accessible.  As if accessibility is some sort of privilege to be held only by those fatties willing to beat themselves up enough and &#8220;Use those Stairs&#8221; and people not completely unable to USE said stairs (whether they are fat or not).</p>
<p>@beta &#8211; First, I am all for using personal energies to avoid using up the resources on our earth.  However, fossil fuels don&#8217;t really power escalators since they run on <a href="http://science.howstuffworks.com/escalator.htm" rel="nofollow">electric motors</a> (unless electricity is a fossil fuel and I somehow missed that?).  Second, simply &#8220;Choosing&#8221; not to WANT to expend energy and wishing that the world would catch up to the current century to accommodate all levels of ability in accessing said world is not merely my means of saying &#8220;I&#8217;m LAZY!  I don&#8217;t want to EXERCISE my LEGS!&#8221; (See part about wanting to use energy for OTHER activities) like some spoiled and privileged little fat girl.  When this world does not accommodate the people in it then hells yes I think it should be re-engineered.  Claiming that the world of stairs as we know it is not denying vast numbers of people access and instead arguing that I &#8220;just don&#8217;t want to be short of breathe&#8221; is ignoring that while I might simply not LIKE going up or down a set of knee harming stairs; there are plenty of other people who don&#8217;t have that option.</p>
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		<title>By: Patsy Nevins</title>
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		<dc:creator>Patsy Nevins</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 May 2009 10:32:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>And the able-bodied who love stairs need to remember that many of us do not have that option.  Please also remember that being able-bodied can be a temporary thing for anyone &amp; that, if you live long enough, eventually the aging process will make stairs a less attractive option for virtually everyone.  I am not fond of feeling as if I must be an inferior lifeform because I cannot RUN upstairs when I take them.  I would advise anyone to appreciate physical abilities &amp; never take them for granted as a birthright.  I feel grateful for the fact that, so far anyway, I CAN still climb some stairs &amp; get around under my own power.  That may not always be true.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And the able-bodied who love stairs need to remember that many of us do not have that option.  Please also remember that being able-bodied can be a temporary thing for anyone &amp; that, if you live long enough, eventually the aging process will make stairs a less attractive option for virtually everyone.  I am not fond of feeling as if I must be an inferior lifeform because I cannot RUN upstairs when I take them.  I would advise anyone to appreciate physical abilities &amp; never take them for granted as a birthright.  I feel grateful for the fact that, so far anyway, I CAN still climb some stairs &amp; get around under my own power.  That may not always be true.</p>
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		<title>By: April D</title>
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		<dc:creator>April D</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 May 2009 01:54:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Irrational Thinker I end up the same with stairs.  Winded no matter for HOW MANY YEARS I might take them; everyday no less.  I feel they are not my favorite form of getting my heart racing at all either ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Irrational Thinker I end up the same with stairs.  Winded no matter for HOW MANY YEARS I might take them; everyday no less.  I feel they are not my favorite form of getting my heart racing at all either <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Irrational Thinker</title>
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		<dc:creator>Irrational Thinker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 May 2009 23:51:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I work on the 10th floor and was determined to take the stairs to get some physical activity in my day (I went from a physical job to sitting in a car for 2 hours and a cube for another 8-10.)  I have to tell you it never got better and I finally just stopped.  Although I have to say it did improve my mood to start the day with my heart racing.  I&#039;d rather make that happen with my husband, but taking the stairs only makes me 5 minutes late. ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I work on the 10th floor and was determined to take the stairs to get some physical activity in my day (I went from a physical job to sitting in a car for 2 hours and a cube for another 8-10.)  I have to tell you it never got better and I finally just stopped.  Although I have to say it did improve my mood to start the day with my heart racing.  I&#8217;d rather make that happen with my husband, but taking the stairs only makes me 5 minutes late. <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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